The fulfillment and success of a couple are often measured by the partners’ ability to conceive, undertake, and succeed in joint projects. In this, there is nothing surprising since this propensity only translates into action, the will of two beings to look in the same direction.
Buying a property, having children, starting a professional activity are all projects that can consolidate and strengthen the existing bonds between two people. Even if it is far from being indispensable and even, often obsolete in certain social circles, organizing a wedding is still one of those symbolic events that some couples like to achieve together.
Organizing a wedding has this characteristic different from the other projects mentioned above, in that it is an act primarily of sharing. Indeed, when two people unite, civilly or religiously, they wish above all to give a certain form of publicity and commitment to their union. In other words, it is about publicly formalizing the happiness that can exist between two beings. In this case, the presence of families and friends allows the lovers to share with their loved ones this happiness that unites them.
That is why wedding remains extremely popular and symbolic for millions of people.
Organizing a wedding is no small feat. On the contrary, this happy event requires vision, organization, method, preparation, and financing. To make this day a complete success, you will need to seriously build a project and execute it meticulously.
The essentials
It is generally accepted that the serene organization of a wedding requires a year. Here are some basic keys that will allow you to start thinking about organizing your wedding
Take the time to reflect…
Do not rush headlong into organizing a wedding. Go away for a weekend together to a quiet place and take the time to ask yourself the right questions such as:
- Do you want to marry religiously or only civilly?
- Do the civil and religious ceremonies take place on the same day or on different days?
- Rather a discreet and intimate wedding or do you prefer to invite a large part of your friends and family?
- Classic ceremony (reception, caterer, dance party) or more minimalist (walking dinner with friends in a garden)?
- Do you plan to go on a honeymoon the day after your wedding or later?
- What will you invest your money in? The meal, the religious ceremony, the civil wedding, the dance party, your honeymoon…?
- Etc.
Plan to get information at the town hall first!
It is based on the availability of your town and the administrative procedures that you will have a more precise idea of the time it will take to organize your wedding. So start by asking questions at the marriage service of your town.
Inquire after the priest or pastor officiating in the parish of your choice
Finding the parish that suits you is far from as simple as one might imagine. Many couples plan to marry in very popular parishes and often, the wait can be long. It is not uncommon for some priests to refuse you their parish because you are not domiciled in the jurisdiction of their parish or in the town. Likewise, availability is not always obvious. Think about it at least a year in advance and don’t forget, you will have to match the availability date of your parish with the availability of the caterer, the ceremony hall, and sometimes even with the holidays of your town. To be clear: planning ahead is essential.
Book your caterer and reception hall
Here too, you will need to consider booking nearly a year in advance, especially if you hope to marry during the most favorable times of the year for this happy event. In general, most weddings are booked between April and September. You will therefore not be alone in desiring such a date, such a place, such a church…
Have your wedding dress made
Is not only a pleasure but can also prove to be a long job, especially if you want your dress to be tailor-made or if you plan to design it yourself: counting a design period of 6 months is not uncommon
Take advice
Take adviceDo not hesitate to listen to the advice of your friends: they represent good guarantees. Some will recommend a good caterer, a good hall, the priest that suits you. There are also many websites specialized in wedding organization, consult them.
Some couples hire the services of a “wedding planner” or even a master of ceremonies. These are small luxuries that can prove indispensable for those who would have difficulty conceiving and executing a project of such magnitude alone. You will also find on our website, the beginnings of organizing your wedding. Take the time to read these tips.
The time invested in reading these preliminary recommendations will quickly be recovered by avoiding making mistakes.
Financing and budget of your wedding
What does a wedding cost? What budget should be considered?
All this will depend on your wishes and ambitions.
The rental of a reception hall is around €2,000.
The cost of a wedding banquet is around €60 per guest.
Let’s assume that the budget of a wedding varies in a range from €10,000 to €40,000 for the most expensive (not including the honeymoon of course).
Do not forget to plan and count everything.
Moreover, you can get discounts if:
- You organize your wedding during less busy periods (between September and March). In this regard, a hall rental in January will be much less expensive than in July.
- Some halls offer you a complete package of services: reception hall, caterer, dance party. This grouped formula will probably be cheaper than if you opt for a caterer or DJ of your choice.
- Providing your wedding meal as well as your own wines can also prove to be a winning formula.
Our credit company offers special conditions to finance your wedding. For wedding credit we automatically offer you our lowest APR rates on the market. It’s our way of giving you a nice wedding gift.
As you will have understood, a considerable number of parameters need to be considered. That is why a year is not an unnecessary luxury to successfully carry out what will undoubtedly be an unforgettable day for you, your family, your friends, and all your loved ones.